When is it ok to ask about whether she's seeing anyone else?

I'm dating a gal. We met through an online matchmaking site and appear to be a good match. We've talked for a bit over a week now, and we will have our first date soon. This is obviously way too soon to ask for exclusivity, but I have been wondering if she's seeing anyone else, it seems like the answer to that question would be a good indicator of whether she's happy with how things are going so far, and it would also tell me whether *I* should stay exclusive or whether I should see other women.





I'm not planning to ask the question until after our first date, but when do you think would be a good time to ask it?





Thanks in advance :)

When is it ok to ask about whether she's seeing anyone else?
i strongly suggest you ask on the spot because if she isn't


it will be much harder to get a 3 some going, or perhaps you have some one in mind for that already?
Reply:I'd give it 2-3 dates, depending on circumstances.
Reply:you can ask her during your plan of a second date. if she refuse then thats the time you inquire.
Reply:you should spend time with her in person first. try to read her body langage, that should tell you something. but if not, answer her. just dont seem like your dieing to know or that your a physco of something. play it cool :]